HEY GUYS !! Firstly, I have been having a great time online with you guys this week its been so fun !! Ive missed you all so much and love spending time on cam with you.

My post today is about the single life lol. I know that there are many out there that are happily married or even those that are happily single. For me I have been single for a while now, I was in a long relationship a couple years ago but it didnt work out. I love dating and stuff but latley, my dates have gone from bad to worse. Are there any good men out there ??? I am currently taking applications LOL.. just kidding, sort of.
Ive just had such bad luck on dates.

Don’t get me wrong there have been a few good ones hehe. I love being single for a lot of reasons primarily because im so busy that its hard to find time to co mmit to a relationship, also because I love the freedom that being single allows me, and well so far I havent met anyone thats taken my breath away you know. I’m sure one day that person will cross my path. I just cannot take another bad date lol. My friends set me up sometimes but gosh do i HATE blind dates LOL. There are times though where I do miss things that you get when your in a relationship.

I guess im just unlucky when it comes to meeting the right guy lol. SO hmmm here are some things that i would say ne ed to be on your application LMFAO . Im not really taking applications but wouldnt that be way easier LOL. *Sigh* Im beginning to wonder lol.

I found this neat little article about the top ten traits of a good boyfriend. Ill elaborate and make my own list in the next post but for now here are the 10 traits of a good boyfriend . I agree with these but I’ll give my take on them in the next post . And after youve read it you will see a few pics from one of my sets that im uploading to my fanclub hehe. These pics and many more ill be uploading all week. I cant wait to have more fun with you guys
xoxoxo
Tay

[B”>Number 10[/B”>

You Listen
When words come out of her mouth, do you actually pay attention to what is being said, or does your brain just process mumbling sounds while you stare at her chest? A good boyfriend is an active listener, meaning he asks questions and doesn’t just sit there, waiting for his turn to speak.

Showing her that you have a genuine interest in what she has to say means, among other things, that you respect her opinions and find her interesting; two things that will meet any woman’s criteria.

[B”>Number 9[/B”>
A great relationship is one that never feels stale. So to avoid having your flames of desire burn out, you have to be unpredictable and mysterious in order to keep her guessing (and on her toes).

Whether you whisk her away to a Mexican resort at the last minute or show up, for no apparent reason, with Chinese takeout, wine and a pair of handcuffs, spontaneity can add some real excitement to the romance, and intrigue her all the more. Women love to be swept away in as many different ways as possible; it’s up to you to come up with as many ideas as you can.

[B”>Number 8[/B”>
Saying that sex is important would be a gross understatement. A good boyfriend must satisfy his woman’s every romantic ne ed (and yes, she should reciprocate). There’s a difference between making love just for the sake of it, and being passionate about it. That means never skipping foreplay, sending her soothing messages during the act (Note: it’s okay to ask her, point-blank, what she likes), and not falling asleep the minute you’re done. [B”> Im gonna add my two cents here and say that I love to just fuck sometimes LOL.. it doesnt always have to be romantic sometimes a nice hair pulling butt spanking session is just what we
ne ed (did say that out loud lol) [/B”>

[B”>Number 7[/B”>
She may feel more empowered by it in the beginning, but in the long run, no woman wants a passive, submissive man who completely compromises his personality to make her happy. Retain your personality, stand by your opinions, and don’t give in too easily. Show her that you are strong, confident, and have a spine.

[B”>Number 6[/B”>
Did she suddenly get highlights in her hair, shed a few pounds, or buy a new dress? These are all things you ne ed to take note of; most women instinctively flock to guys with keen eyes. It shows that you are attentive and don’t skim over life’s more subtle details.

[B”>Number 5[/B”>

You give her space
Trust is the foundation of any good relationship. Part of that entails giving her the freedom to have a life separate from yours without asking 20 questions or having jealous fits, and knowing that she’s not taking your trust for granted. Keep things in perspective; would you like a girlfriend who kept tabs on every move you made? Probably not, and the same goes for her. And always look for a silver lining; in this case, you’ll have time to hang out with your buddies, and have something to talk to her about the next time you see her.

[B”>Number 4[/B”>

You respect her
It’s important to avoid letting your ego get the best of you, so if your mentality is stuck in the ’50s, you must adjust to changing times. You have to understand that she’s an equal part of the relationship, so appreciate her company. Likewise, try to embrace her family early on. In addition to scoring precious points, being kind and courteous toward her parents is a good way to show that you’re serious about the relationship. This includes, but is not limited to, bringing the parents thoughtful little gifts every so often, and planning activities that include her whole family, like a picnic. Of course, I’m assuming that you’ve already survived that dreadful first meeting.

[B”>Number 3[/B”>

You better yourself
Demonstrating what a positive effect your woman has had on you is a fantastic way of gaining leverage. Whether you’re getting yourself back into shape, improving your vocabulary, or forgetting about the television long enough to take dance lessons with her, it doesn’t matter. Improving yourself is a great way of letting her know she deserves the best, and she’ll be flattered that she was the inspiration behind your desire to aim higher.

[B”>Number 2[/B”>

You challenge her to be better
Likewise, your role in her life should be just as beneficial. You should inspire her to make changes that reflect the positive effect you’ve had on her. If, for example, you see her letting a great talent go to waste, encourage her; maybe that’s all she ne eds. Don’t be afraid to sign her up for an art class, or push her to pursue a career you know she’d be good at. The fact that you care that much about her well-being will make her want to keep you around longer.

[B”>Number 1[/B”>

You make her feel beautiful
Reminding her how beautiful she is comes with making her feel good, and makes you a poster boyfriend. Best of all: simplicity and honesty are all you ne ed. Buy her, say, a card that expresses your appreciation, compliment her at odd times, and if you feel that she’s the most gorgeous creature you’ve ever laid eyes on, be sure to let her know. Women want to look good for their men, and proving to her that you only have eyes for her will be a validation of that. keep each other happy. What it all boils down to is making her feel good about herself and appreciating her in an unselfish way; find success in this department, and she will love you eternally. More importantly, however; if I’ve just finished describing you and she still takes issue with the little things, then maybe it’s time for you to reevaluate how good a partner she really is.

Now that you’ve read all that Here are some pics for you
xoxoxo
Tay